"You had better be busy too earning some money. Or I will be married to another rich man by the time your short sexual organ is retired. Yes for some absolutely sick and toxic reason you turn me on a bit, but I want that in real life."
L.O.-The Narcissist (The terrified 'Victim')
Surviving the Storm - Journey with a covert narcissist.
Introduction:
Welcome to Surviving the Storm, a comprehensive account of how L.O., a 30-year-old woman from Stuttgart, Germany, orchestrated a systematic attempt to dismantle my life through psychological manipulation, possible identity theft, and all out digital warfare, all while portraying herself as the vulnerable victim/hero while spreading a narrative wherein I am a psychopathic stalker intent on terrorizing her and her family.
Overview:
What began as a seemingly chance encounter on a Discord server evolved into a sophisticated case of narcissistic abuse and cybercrime. Over the course of a year, the relationship devolved into a campaign of deception, involving the creation of false identities, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, future faking, and strategic legal maneuvers designed to confuse, isolate, and criminalize me. I have never done anything to her that would deserve the kind of retaliation and personal sabotage that I and my family have been subjected to.
Purpose:
This site exists to document the evidence, expose the narcissist's manipulation, and to tell the truth. I have collected forensic artifacts, message transcripts, platform activity logs, and timestamped proof of psychological baiting, abuse, fraud and account tampering, attempted theft and identity hijacking.
Key Incidents Documented:
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Emotional Manipulation: Leveraging affection and false intimacy to gain trust, followed by abrupt devaluation and discard.
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Digital Entrapment: Extracting sensitive data under the guise of trust, later weaponized against me.
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Account Hijackings: Unauthorized access to over 20 online accounts, including attempts to access crypto wallets and professional services.
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False Identity Creation: Fabrication of social media profiles to confuse, defame, or implicate me.
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Weaponized Moderation: Manipulating multiple platform moderators to ban me on two platforms based solely on false claims.
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False Email Campaigns: Sending anonymous emails in various languages to provoke and entrap and frame me .
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Reactive Abuse Traps: Provoking extreme emotional responses in order to portray herself as the victim and make me the abuser.
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Legal Ambush: Filing false cybercrime charges to shift attention from her own cybercrimes and to cause me to lose my means of making a income.
A warning to others:
If you've experienced similar patterns of manipulation, stalking, or digital sabotage, this documentation may help in avoiding further damage or hopefully prevent another person from falling victim to this ruthless predator.
A developing Story - How the narcissist is at it again...
Below is an illustration generated by AI based on a description of the alleged cybercrime hackers L.O. and Dom. This image is NOT a photograph and any resemblance to individuals living or dead is entirely coincidental.

The narcissist leverages her innocent looks to fool the greater public into believing her distorted version of reality. She is expert at playing the victim, and uses her boyfriend Dom (a hacker) to obfuscate any evidence of her wrong-doing.
A new Victim?
June 8th 2025
Her employer, a man called K.F. recently locked his Facebook profile. K.F. is a public-facing editor of a fan-centric sci-fi brand which is the worlds longest running Sci -Fi publication, where his openness was a core part of his role. His Facebook profile was his open line of engagement with fans, for years. This could be a sign that the narcissists influence over him is increasing. L.O. has been working as media marketing manager there since September 2024, when I coached her to get this job. She once again seems to be on a path of destroying someone else's life. He recently sent company lawyers after me with baseless accusations and demands that I admit guilt and agree to undisclosed amounts of compensation. She doubtlessly influenced him to do this. She wants something to be able to use against him later on. Using company resources to assist her in personal matters is something she could easily blackmail him with. His blog posts have dropped from around 350 per year to around 200 for 2025. This is the narcissist is using his resources and causing him to neglect his work. A typical sign of narcissistic manipulation.
This mirrors the behavioral shift seen in targets who become controlled or manipulated by the narcissist and could be in anticipation that fans, journalists, or other parties might soon start asking questions. Whether it is money or professional gains, the narcissist will use whoever she needs to in order to achieve her aims.
Following the narcissistic playbook, as soon as she has received what she wants from her victim she will turn on them and proceed to destroy every facet of their lives, while simultaneously painting herself as the victim and the victim as the abuser. This is classic narcissistic reversal or DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reversal, Victim, Offender) . And L.O. is a master practitioner of this kind of narcissistic manipulation. Even during the love bombing phase she is already conducting a smear campaign against the victim, something the victim only discovers much later on. She systematically destroys evidence by exclusively using platforms like Telegram where she can delete all messages automatically and where screenshots are prohibited. The emails she sends are designed to be read later by third parties , authorities, moderators, employers etc. and will make her look like the reasonable, frightened victim, who is terrified of the psychopathic partner that is stalking and threatening her.
K.F. has almost stopped posting on Twitter, Instagram and has locked his Facebook profile. She already has him destroying his own career while convincing him that she is in fact helping him, while actually planning her betrayal of him, just as she did with me, no doubt in preparation for her own ascension which will coincide with the publishing of some Biography (Maybe even ghostwritten by the same man she plans to replace.) that paints her as the victim/hero. He is further in the abuse cycle than I had thought. She is already making him appear unstable, and the fact that he is doing things he has not done before shows she is succeeding. As the public facing presence for the world's longest running Sci Fi publication his growing absence will no doubt cause waves in the community. I fear it is already to late for the poor soul. He probably still believes her lies right now, only when she discards him will he realize what has happened. She will also attempt to destroy his marriage just as she did mine.
With her recent purchase of a domain in her own name it is clear she is planning something big. Her increased surveillance of this blog confirms this. She has been obsessively visiting pages here on a regular basis with up to 91 page visits in a single day. She has deployed sophisticated methods to avoid detection, proving that my hacking was a minor effort for someone of her capabilities, but there is nothing like invisibility on the internet today. The story is still developing. I will keep you updated.